i dont know what to call myself

reading this feels like you put my similar feelings into a coherent form, & I am very glad you made this & put it out for others to see, I can relate, though it might be in a different way/have a different meaning to me personally. I hope more people can just not worry about what labels to put eachother into & just let each other be & grow; I use xenogenders but that's mostly just for myself to understand my own experience, not for others to understand, yet people still try to ask what my identities mean in order for them to just place me into categories that might not even be how I see myself & are arbitrary in the end. I'm just some person, not a woman, not a man, not any other label but a person, not the societal implications of being a man or woman or nonbinary, I'm just a person; I wish more people would just let each other be as they are, not worrying about what categories to put (or even force) each other into.